Creating Great Choices

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Creating Great Choices
By Jennifer Riel and Roger L. Martin

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Creating Great Choices challenges the traditional view that decision-making means choosing between opposing options. Instead, it introduces integrative thinking — a process of combining the best parts of conflicting ideas to create new, innovative solutions. The book offers a practical framework for individuals and organizations to move beyond trade-offs, think more creatively, and make smarter, forward-looking decisions that embrace complexity rather than avoiding it.

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• Integrative Thinking Redefines Decisions
  Great decisions don’t come from choosing sides but from blending strengths. Integrative thinking encourages exploring both options deeply, identifying what works, and creating a better third choice. Instead of compromising, it combines the advantages of conflicting ideas. This approach transforms tension into innovation, leading to outcomes that are more effective, balanced, and sustainable than traditional trade-offs.

• Opposing Ideas Are Opportunities, Not Obstacles
  When faced with two opposing solutions, most people eliminate one. Integrative thinkers see conflict as creative energy. By exploring both sides fully, they discover insights hidden between them. Opposition sparks curiosity, not anxiety. Treating tension as an opportunity helps leaders find innovative outcomes that surpass either extreme, turning disagreement into fertile ground for growth.

• Models Shape How We Think
  Every decision relies on mental models: simplified maps of how we believe the world works. The problem is that models are incomplete. Expanding and questioning them helps us see new possibilities. Integrative thinkers challenge assumptions, seeking broader perspectives. By improving the models that guide choices, we make smarter, more adaptable decisions that reflect reality better.

• Seek the Best of Both Worlds
  When facing tough choices, ask: “What if both ideas are partly right?” Instead of settling for one, explore how each could contribute to a stronger solution. This mindset turns contradictions into combinations. Innovation often happens when you merge opposing qualities, like efficiency and creativity, logic and emotion, or stability and risk.

• Understanding Opposing Ideas Deeply
  Before integration comes understanding. You can’t combine what you don’t comprehend. Study each side fully. Its reasoning, values, and intended outcomes. Suspend judgment and explore what makes each appealing. The more deeply you grasp both perspectives, the better your eventual solution will reflect the strengths of each. Deep understanding is the foundation of integrative success.

• Hold Tension Without Rushing to Resolution
  Our minds crave closure, but great thinkers sit with discomfort longer. Holding opposing ideas in tension allows time for insight to emerge. Resist the urge to choose quickly. Let contradictions interact in your mind until a new pattern forms. Patience during ambiguity produces deeper creativity and more lasting solutions.

• Define the Real Problem First
  Many poor decisions happen because people solve the wrong problem. Before evaluating options, clarify what truly needs fixing. Ask “What are we trying to achieve?” not just “Which path should we take?” When you understand the core challenge, better choices naturally emerge, often blending ideas that seemed incompatible before.

• The Power of Generative Resolution
  A generative resolution doesn’t pick winners; it creates something new that transforms the problem itself. It reframes the conflict and produces an idea superior to both starting points. This creative synthesis is what makes integrative thinking powerful. It expands the range of possible futures rather than narrowing it down.

• Challenge the Either/Or Mindset
  Binary thinking: believing you must choose one path or the other, limits creativity. Life rarely fits into simple choices. The integrative approach replaces “either/or” with “both/and.” This mental flexibility opens the door to new ideas that accommodate complexity instead of fighting it, unlocking better ways to solve hard problems.

• Visualization Strengthens Understanding
  Mapping out ideas visually through diagrams, sketches, or models helps uncover patterns and relationships. Seeing ideas interact on paper allows integrative thinkers to spot hidden connections that words alone can’t reveal. Visualization transforms abstract tension into clarity, making innovation more tangible and collaborative.

• Divergent and Convergent Thinking Work Together
  Divergent thinking generates multiple possibilities; convergent thinking narrows them into actionable paths. Integrative thinking blends both. First, expand imagination without judgment. Then, evaluate critically and refine. Balancing creative exploration with disciplined reasoning produces solutions that are imaginative yet practical, the hallmark of strategic brilliance.

• Empathy Enhances Better Choices
  Understanding the human side of every idea broadens decision-making. Empathy helps reveal the motivations, fears, and aspirations behind conflicting opinions. Integrative thinkers use empathy to connect ideas emotionally, not just intellectually. By valuing others’ perspectives, they create solutions that work for more people and achieve stronger, long-term alignment.

• Frame the Question Differently
  Sometimes the problem lies not in the solution but in the way it’s framed. Rephrasing the central question can unlock creativity. Instead of “Which idea is better?” ask “How might both ideas work together?” Changing the question expands mental space for innovation and transforms constraint into opportunity.

• Explore Extreme Perspectives
  Push ideas to their limits. Ask, “What would happen if we took this belief to its extreme?” Testing extremes exposes hidden assumptions and shows the consequences of rigid thinking. Once the boundaries are clear, you can combine the best features from both sides to form a balanced and creative solution.

• Leaders Must Model Open-Mindedness
  Team members mirror their leader’s mindset. Leaders who welcome diverse opinions, encourage debate, and value curiosity set the tone for an integrative culture. Open-mindedness from the top creates psychological safety for others to explore conflicting ideas freely. When teams feel safe, they innovate fearlessly and think more deeply together.

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• Great Choices Are Emotionally Intelligent
  Emotion and logic should complement each other, not compete. Emotional intelligence helps leaders manage their reactions and stay open to opposing views. Integrative decisions balance empathy with evidence, ensuring choices satisfy both rational analysis and human experience. Emotionally aware thinking builds trust and prevents good ideas from being dismissed due to ego.

• Every Model Has Blind Spots
  No idea captures the whole truth. Recognizing this prevents arrogance and invites curiosity. By exploring the limitations of existing models, you open the door to new combinations. The best thinkers regularly question their own frameworks, refining them to match evolving realities and uncovering creative opportunities where others see constraints.

• Conflict Is a Resource for Growth
  Disagreement can be productive if managed well. Constructive conflict encourages deeper understanding and sparks innovation. When handled respectfully, tension fuels progress. Integrative leaders reframe conflict from confrontation to collaboration, turning differing opinions into insights that strengthen final decisions and enrich relationships.

• Ask Better Questions
  Smart questions lead to wise choices. Instead of asking “What’s right?” ask “What can we learn from both sides?” Good questions clarify goals, reveal assumptions, and inspire creativity. Integrative thinkers focus on questions that expand thinking rather than narrow it. Curiosity drives progress.

• Learning from the Future, Not the Past
  Most decisions rely too heavily on past experience. Integrative thinking encourages imagining future possibilities instead. Instead of repeating what worked before, ask what could work now, given new realities. The future rewards adaptability, not nostalgia. Forward-looking learning builds resilience in uncertain, fast-changing environments.

• Collaborative Thinking Beats Solo Reasoning
  Great decisions rarely happen in isolation. Collaboration introduces diversity of thought and exposes hidden assumptions. Different minds see the world from various angles, enriching creativity. When teams combine expertise, they co-create integrative solutions that are broader and stronger than any individual could design alone. Collaboration turns tension into transformation.

• Assumptions Must Be Tested, Not Defended
  Assumptions often masquerade as truths. Instead of defending them, treat them as hypotheses to test. Challenging assumptions opens new insights and prevents blind spots from distorting judgment. Integrative thinkers embrace humility, allowing evidence to shape their conclusions rather than protecting their pride. Openness keeps decisions grounded and evolving.

• Imagination Is a Leadership Skill
  Leaders who imagine new possibilities inspire innovation. Integrative thinking relies on imagination and the courage to envision outcomes that don’t yet exist. Great leaders dream beyond current limitations, combining vision with practicality. Imagination fuels resilience and creativity, empowering teams to see potential where others see dead ends.

• Balance Simplicity and Complexity
  Simplifying too much can hide nuance; overcomplicating can paralyze action. Integrative thinkers balance both simplifying ideas enough to act but keeping enough complexity to stay realistic. This balance ensures solutions remain actionable without losing depth. Simplicity and sophistication can coexist when handled thoughtfully.

• Curiosity Sustains Innovation
  Curiosity drives continuous improvement. Asking “Why?” and “What if?” uncovers deeper truths behind surface problems. Integrative thinkers remain curious even after achieving success, thereby preventing complacency. Curiosity maintains creativity over time and keeps learning alive within organizations. The most innovative teams never stop questioning what’s possible.

• Reframe Failure as Learning
  Failure is part of creative synthesis. Every setback teaches what doesn’t work and refines what might. By treating failure as feedback, teams remain resilient and optimistic. Integrative thinkers see failed experiments as essential steps toward new insights. Learning from missteps accelerates progress and strengthens future choices.

• Flexibility Is Strategic Strength
  Rigid plans collapse under pressure, but flexible thinking endures. Integrative leaders adjust their approach based on new information without abandoning their vision. This flexibility ensures resilience amid complexity. Great choices evolve as understanding grows, reflecting both stability and adaptability. Strategic flexibility transforms uncertainty into opportunity.

• Decision Quality Improves with Diversity
  Diverse teams produce richer ideas because they bring varied perspectives and experiences. Inclusion strengthens creativity and reduces bias. Integrative decision-making thrives when all voices contribute. Diversity isn’t just moral; it’s practical. It helps teams design solutions that reflect real-world complexity and broader understanding.

• Integration Requires Courage
  Creating something new from opposites often challenges norms. It demands courage to resist easy answers and explore the unknown. Courageous thinkers stay curious despite criticism. They trust the process of synthesis, knowing that transformative ideas often look risky before they succeed. Courage turns insight into innovation.

• Integrative Thinking Builds a Better Future
  The ability to hold tension, embrace contradictions, and merge opposing ideas is the essence of progress. Integrative thinking doesn’t just solve problems, it reshapes them. By practicing this approach, individuals and organizations move from compromise to creation, unlocking sustainable innovation and smarter leadership for the future.

What’s Next?

Think about a challenge you’re facing with two conflicting solutions. Instead of choosing one, explore how both could combine into something better. Study each deeply, hold the tension patiently, and let creativity bridge the gap. Innovation lives in the space between opposites. Embrace it and discover new possibilities.

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